We are all in relationship and each has its own language.
Gary Chapmen introduces the concept that people express and receive love in different ways in his book "The 5 Love Languages.” He refers to these terms as “love language.”
These include:
➔ Words of Affirmation - expressing love through verbal affirmation.
➔ Quality Time - expressing love through focused and undivided attention.
➔ Receiving Gifts - expressing love through tangible gifts.
➔ Acts of Service - expressing love through helpful actions.
➔ Physical Touch - expressing love through helpful actions.
You can improve your relationship by understanding and speaking your partner’s love language.
Helpful at home and other parts of our lives.
Like in romantic relationships, where speaking the correct love language can deepen connections, understanding individual communication styles can dramatically improve leadership effectiveness.
How to apply “love language” in your life:
1️⃣ Identify which of the love languages are important to you.
2️⃣ Ask your partner to do the same.
3️⃣ Share the lists. Note where each person could identify the other's “love languages”. Where did they differ? Was there a language not on the list? What changes could be made from either side?
4️⃣ Revisit these “love languages” to make sure we are on the right track.
When working with a team, use the same process, but focus more on the Team's love languages than your own. Regular verbal affirmations can boost confidence and morale, while dedicated time shows genuine care and commitment.
This was a good read and demonstrated the value of skilful communication in all human relationships.
Quick test: Which love languages are important to you? In what context?